Three Alternatives to Court for Your New Jersey Divorce Three Alternatives to Court for Your New Jersey Divorce Three Alternatives to Court for Your New Jersey Divorce Michele Hart Law

Date: October 8, 2021 | Author: Michele Hart

Contrary to common belief, going to court for a divorce is not the only option; and, in my experience as a family lawyer for over 20 years, I find that court is generally the last resort.  While some divorcing spouses might want their “day in court,” it’s generally not an outcome they would expect or want.  After all, judges are human like everyone else.

And there simply aren’t enough of them.  Family judges are generally overworked with the sheer volume of cases assigned to them and can’t be expected to remember the details of your case, particularly when they are often transferred and moved around.

As a result, I have seen families forced to wait a very long time for a judge’s decision as they live with unease and uncertainty.

This can be incredibly frustrating for divorcing couples.  But it’s incredibly important to at least consult with a creative and experienced family law attorney who can offer concrete guidance, direction, and strategy to achieve a much quicker outcome tailored specifically for you.

For example, you might consider these 3 alternatives to court to reach an out of court divorce settlement on your own terms:

Negotiation

The vast majority of New Jersey divorces are settled out of court by mutual agreement between both spouses and their respective lawyers.

Specialized professionals or experts

When there is a business or real property to be valued and divided, it can be very helpful to enlist a specialized professional or expert, like an accountant or appraiser, to independently value the asset.

Likewise, many accountants and mental health professionals are trained in mediation and can help facilitate agreements.

Divorce mediation

Divorce mediation is a confidential non-binding dispute resolution process facilitated by the mediator, who is a neutral third party.

The bottom line?  Every divorce is unique and there is no one-size-fits-all approach.

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