Recommended Reading

Divorce and Co-parenting
• The Collaborative Way to Divorce by Stuart Webb
• Crazy Time by Abigail Trafford
• Mom’s house, Dad’s house by Isolina Ricci, Ph.D.

Conflict resolution strategies
• Taking the War Out of Our Words: The Art of Powerful Non-Defensive Communication by Sharon Ellison
• Getting to Yes by Fisher, Ury and Patton

Financial Planning
• Personal Financial Planning for Divorce by Jeffrey H. Rattiner

Personal Growth
• Emotional Freedom by Judith Orloff
• Positivity by Barbara Frederickson
• The Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Goldhor Lerner
• Beyond Codependency by Melody Beattie
• Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins
• The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
• Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
• A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
• The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner
• Strengthfinders 2.0 by Tom Rath
• The Pathfinder – How to Choose or Change your Career for a Lifetime of Satisfaction and Success by Nicholas Lore

Books on Divorce for Adults
• Cooperative Parenting and Divorce, “Shielding Your Child From Conflict” – A Parent’s Guide to Effective Co-Parenting by Susan Blyth Boyan & Ann Marie Termini
• Ahrons, Constance, The Good Divorce, Harper Paperbacks (1998).
• Ahrons, Constance, We’re Still Family:  What Grown Children Have to Say About Their Parents’ Divorce, Harper Paperbacks (2005).
• Cochran, Cate, Reconcilable Differences: Marriages End, Families Don’t, Second Story Press (2007).
• Reconcilable Differences:  A Consumer’s Guide to Divorce Mediation by William H. Donahue, Jr.
• Taking the Conflict Out of Child Custody – Seven Quick Awareness Exercises Plus Seven Critical Skills to Keep Children Out of the Middle by Chet Muklewicz
• Ousky, Ron and Webb, Stuart, The Collaborative Way to Divorce:  The Revolutionary Method that Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids — Without Going to Court,  Hudson Street Press (2006).
• Tesler, Pauline and Thompson, Peggy, Collaborative Divorce:  The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move On With Your Life, ReganBooks/Harper Collins (2006).

Books on Divorce for Children
• Dinosaurs Divorce by Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown
• It’s Not Your Fault Koko Bear by Vicki Lansky 

 Online Tools
The OurFamilyWizard® is an online tool that features a calendar for scheduling parenting time, including holidays, as well as children’s activities and social events so that both co-parents have equal access at any time.  There is also an expense log that allows co-parents to share and track their expenses and payments from separate households.   Additional features include an information bank to store contacts, personal information about the children, such as clothing and shoe sizes, medical and school information, and a message board.